My family and I had been overseas for about 6 months when a taxi driver asked the question dreaded by many American expats, “Where are you from?” For the past eight years this has been a loaded question which could have many difficult outcomes. This particular taxi driver asked the question with a hostility that concerned me. I quickly answered, “We are Canadian.” I tried desperately to give my children the mother’s eye, but it was too late! My young son blurted out, “Mom, why would you lie? We are American!” The rest of the trip was spent in uncomfortable silence.
Having to defend or apologize for an embarrassing president and policies that go against every fiber of my being is exhausting! Being an expat American for the past eight years has been a tough when strangers ask about my nationality. There is a guarantee of either getting sucked into a debate or listening to anti-American policy rhetoric that is difficult to defend. Asian friends would ask, “Why do you like Bush?” Canadian friends stare strangely and query, “Are you serious? You don’t have public health care? Your daughter’s broken wrist cost you $6,000.00?” European friends would demand, “How can you agree with the American foreign policy?” I would lamely try to explain that myself included, not all Americans agree with our politicians, and that was the beauty of being an American. We have the right to disagree. But I was tired of having to defend a country I dearly love, but whose policies I deeply opposed.
Now I listen to Barack Obama and I can feel it! HOPE!
Thank you Americans all over the world for hearing the message of hope and wanting change. After the election we went to a party here in KL to celebrate and the atmosphere was electric. I hadn’t felt that kind of jubilation even in recent New Year’s Eve parties! The words dignified, peace, diplomacy, pride, justice, and optimism bounced around the room in many different American accents and a few European, Canadian, Aussie and Asian accents as well. The jubilation in that condo was evident in everyone including the pizza delivery person!
I teach at an international school and I have nine different nationalities represented in my classroom. The day after Obama secured the election almost every parent congratulated me, as if I was the one who put him there. I certainly did my part and voted via e-mail! My local neighbors cannot get enough of my time to discuss how thrilled they are at having such a great man become our next president. They talk of world peace and prosperity. As I walked through a downtown market today with friends, a man shouted out to me, “Obama number one, I love America!” Rest assured I have NEVER had this experience before! I held up my head and smiled at him as we exchanged the universal thumbs up!
I am not ignorant in thinking that the world will change over night or that America has the power to change everything. Perhaps we can dream of ALL working together now. I also know that all Americans may not agree with the decisions and policies that Obama will enact. However, I am anticipating the dawning of a new era. We all feel it and embrace it. It is a feeling of pride and optimism. Barack Obama has brought people together from all over the world. He has energized us with a hope for a better future and a desire to achieve it. I will be proud to follow such a dignified leader!
A friend of mine summed it up when she paraphrased the book, The Kite Runner, and said, “Now America can be good again!”
Friends celebrating Obama’s victory in Kuala Lumpur! “V” for victory and for peace!













